We remain a loving husband, devoted father, but we must give up the idea of clinging to material of a loved one, on her physical possession and thus clinging to her personal ego. But we have to keep the concept of the "spirituality", its nature, its actual existence. That relationship is illusory replaced by a true relationship, ephemeral pseudoláska immortal love and basic. Love of divinity is paramount duty. One must really love above all else, Nadja. Emotional love for man is secondary. Compassion is the noblest of human emotion, the purest love of creatures. This is the last human expression of the divine soul of man. Because it is able to feel with another person just because they are each related in harmony presence of that soul in each of them.