In this blog I would love to write about success. I hope that this is going to be useful to you, and that you will enjoy reading this.
Before I start, I need to say that this is just my opinion about success and things connected to it. I do not want to insult anyone. If you think differently, that is totally okay. I would love to know your opinion too. So, please share it with us in the comments below.
What is success?
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Success is to be able to do what you want to do, when you want to.
I can not tell you what success is. For someone it is to have big house, for someone other it is to have a lot of money. Someone wants to be famous, and some other people would love to have happy family.
Success is connected with happiness.
People who are not successful can not be happy.
Because of that, give your best to be successful. Give your best to get things that you want to have.
How to be successful?
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I can not tell you what you should do, and what you should not do. I can not tell you concrete things, because I have no idea what do you want. I will write you a couple basic things that successful people are doing, and some things that successful people are not doing.
- First, and most important of all. Successful people are not following what other people are doing. You need to focus on yourself and on your own life. Think only about things that you are doing, and do only things that are good for you and people around you. So, instead of thinking that grass is greener in your neighbor's yard, take care of your own. Successful people do not notice neighbor's grass, they do not know if it is greener, they are too busy working on their own grass.
Do not think that someone else is happier than you, and do not think that you are sadder than all other people.
Millions of people would love to live your life, always remember that.
- Second, actually this one is connected with the first one. Do not gossip. Never. Do not talk about what other are doing. They have their reasons, you do not know that reasons. If you constantly talk about others, you would not have enough time to talk about yourself. Don't judge and do not criticize others. 'Winners focus on winning, losers focus on winners'. You owe to yourself to be winner.
- Work hard for things that you want to have. 'If you are not building your dreams, others will hire you to build their'. You need to give your best to build your dreams. If you do not make something good for yourself, no one else will make.
- Never give up. No matter how tired, sad or upset you are. Do not give up. Keep cashing your dreams. When you get it, you will see that it was worth it. Everyone can give up, only successful people can keep trying.
Best quotations about success
Success is no accident. It is hard work, perseverance, learning, studying, sacrifice and most of all, love of what you are doing or learning to do.
If you are not interested in things that you are doing, you will never be successful. You can not get anything if you are doing things that you do not love. So, before you start doing anything, find what you love. And when you find it, work as hard as you can, and even harder for it.
I can accept failure, but I can not accept not trying.
It is okay to fail, but it is not okay to give up. You owe to yourself to try one more time. Every time you fall, you need to get up, and to try again and again, until you get what you want to have.
As 50 Cent once said "Get rich or die trying''. Okay, maybe your goal is not to be rich, but no matter what your goal is, get it, or die trying. And I do not want to tell that you should do dangerous things, I want to tell that you that you should keep trying till the end of your life.
There isn't talent here, this is hard work. This is an obsession. Talent does not exist, we are all equal as human beings. You could be anyone if you put in the time. You will reach the top, and that is that. I am not talented, I am obsessed.
This is true. You can stay where you are and say that you are not talented, that you are not lucky enough, that you do not have enough money to do something. You can also get up and try to do something good fro your self. It is up to you to decide. If you try, you can fail, but you can also become a very successful person, if you do not try, you can not fail, and you will never be a successful person.
No matter if you are at the bottom, you can reach the top, just you need to work very, very hard.
Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life- think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success.
Focus on only one thing. You can not have everything, because of that you need to focus on only one thing. For example if you want to have great career, you can not have the best social life, and if you want to have the best social life, you can not have the best career.
If you want to be a good doctor, you can not be an actor at the same time. Decide what you want from yourself. You can be anything, but you can not be everything. Always remember that. Everything is fine while you are focused on only one thing.
At the end of the day, you are solely responsible for your success and your failure. And the sooner you realize that, you accept that, and integrate that into you work ethic, you will start being successful. As long as you blame others for the reason you are not where you want to be, you will always be a failure.
You are the only reason why you are successful, and you are the only reason why you are not successful. Stop blaming others, they can not change anything in your life. They will not get you to the top, and they will not make you stay at the bottom.
You have the power to change your life.
Everyone can betray you, but you mustn't betray yourself.
That was everything what i wanted to tell you about success. I hope that i helped you, and I hope that this blog was interesting to you.
Thank you very much for reading this.
Love you all, and see you next time!