True Love or Destiny

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Everyone you meet as they are if they need your approval, the treatment of friends and enemies, starting from today, loved one or stranger. I love that you can how trivial contact, regardless of the understanding and the kindness and care of all, it does not extend to each person, you collect, do it with no thought of any reward. Never in your life will be the same again. It does not exist in life following gives a lot than it takes.

It will be displayed if there is to love you. You is not the same person, in the eyes of you, your face, the way you walk, you have to sit, and all, it appears. You have been touched. There is no heart desire. And, there is a big problem here.

If you are satisfied only when you find a lover to fall in love with you, the relationship of your life and will be confusion. Did not have walked incomplete without a lover is basically the same experience because you before you fell in love. In fact, it's like a song that head space, until someone, anyone that "I'm you love cause of our suffering" All you.

You are, have someone "Who is whether I love you", please read it. If you are a one person, before you fall in love, after you fell in love, you are someone else, is dependent, is there in this wonderful experience, it's the problem of the relationship you is the beginning. This is the level of the second or first love where there is significant confusion between the antidepressant love, need, and rescue.

There are four alternatives for the love. They are greedy of material sex, food, and religion. You can not a lot of people tell the difference between replacement and love. Lover because they have a lot of wealth or they feel the love of the sex great cause. When there is love when you experience the hope, the same chemical that is produced in the body is because the generated us. When you experience other forms of happiness, such as the crazy like that, chemically, the hormone of love is secreted us, hope is a powerful aphrodisiac.

This is the motivation to attract people together in a level first, second, and third of love. Their hormone, are competing. Love, if desired or idolized, which they can not say. Chemical nature of the change in their body, they feel the experience of all of the "in love". However, They are not in love. They are in solution. To solve the problem, it is a substitute for love. This substitution is unsustainable. The attachment to the lover of his own, because there is growing hope that there is that love, It's a relationship made ​​in hell, but conditional very, is very emotional, but love does not in fact, it will fail it. Before I met lover of them, because there were so in love they are they, they were not ready just to be in love.

To be truly in love, you must learn that not only is no love partner, and partner. We must be in the "in love" without someone to love. It's just there in the attitude of loving life in sunset and trees and children; in love with our parents, and in love with the movie. You need to have ready to fall in love, are in love with our future and our past.

When it is in fact in love with something in your life, you are ambivalent to it. In other words, you are not attracted to it, or repelled by it. You do not have to be either afraid of it, to avoid it. Situation or person that is a part of you. They are you. They are a mirror, you can see yourself there, you are those you. In this love, there is gratitude. You can not you are no longer trying to do the opposite to them, to thank someone. You are them. If you choose, you can and who you are in love. Of course, it is not to say you need a relationship with them. Ai is a method as being in the world which does not react to it.

Safe, in order to keep yourself in peace, there are single people of many learn to love all people. And this is healthy, but happy, the only place you may you be happy without a lover, it is not the place to stay. If your ego is strong in the world, you want to be powerful, it is fine. Because we do not have people who can not stand up to you "giant within" simply, stay single - however, this is not a love. The state of satisfaction is a war of love. This is not what I was suggesting. If the ego is controlled, because your satisfaction is something that you'll try to protect your relationship, experience of love and life, there is no much sexual moment. Is your ego, if you want satisfaction are seeking in order to flatten the spirit of your lover, it will search the world for someone who is "trust", but what it is that you are really want it The authority is a "non-interference". Ultimately, can not blame, self-righteous, control possessive, jealous, fearful, to trust, it becomes critical, the relationship will degrade you. And, is that frankly, the level of celebration of love that to promote? You will be able to lose the chemical nature of the fall in love, to obtain the acidity of indignation.

Before you begin, usually, this tension will kill love it. If you want to draw a picture, and your work at the office to have the love, you do not sit on the beach, everyone, the more you can not do to you than doing to yourself so more, you remember please are. If you are not satisfied with waiting before the replacement or do you meet someone, your love does not have the experience of the chemical of everything you need, but a sustainable mental you need it would be one of the Na experience. Before you meet your lover, when it is not in love with your life, it is that you fall in love, you have to expect that it will be able to resolve the emotional issues of all the strange little. You can find someone to ease the pain just for you. And, I'm not going to do it for a long time nothing.

Many people that I have worked condemns their relationship for all. Even when you saw the inside of their hearts, these problems, its unfortunate, was forever. It is possible that business is to get the responsibility, they also may have been channeling it their parents, former partner, siblings or children, but when it comes to relationships, they get the blame their partner and then all of the other, including yourself, you are down the hook.

In nature, the forest, the forest is the same whether or not it is it is you.

It is not built from the terrible dependency says romance "without you, my life and" not worth living. In other words, it comes from people that expression is severely depressed, you have become the anti-depressant of them. You is not a antidepressant, you are lover lover and lover, of life. To you before you fall in love with someone, So, you are in love question?

In nature, love somehow always there, nothing missing but there

When I was married first, I thought there was only one person could in love I bet. So, it became my wife. There was my wife only to become in love with, but there were people that I loved. Something what I can at work really, I did not think about love and during sports or. I said I love "I is for my wife, and all that other" is something else. It's like wearing a straight jacket. Something so is dry and competitiveness in life without love we, it's inhuman. Very my business, I made ​​a very aggressive leadership of me, I was hard and dried, was not interested in that you love what you were doing to me. When the divorce I came, I noticed in particular I was inhumane to itself. I am, in order that is in love with a partner, I, is required that what was referring, it is in love with the world of me actually that. After that, I already had but a small moment of love, my relationship did not live to work hard otherwise, my relationship was a spectacular extension.

For it is in love, we will not be able to become exclusive. We will not be able to masquerade as a critical protection and, with an open and loving towards the other, the mind of one person. We is not like the suit worn that can be taken out when it put on love. Love life, select the relationship, and become a monopoly in our actions, our attitude is from there we there. But not exclusively in order to love, it will not be able to. However, from that love, we will be able to select that the relationship, it is a beautiful relationship in intimate romantic, and then we select that the prioritization of its people, and open to them. So what you want to be to others, that it be in order to make the act of the love of your life, we concentrate on important energy in this book.

Love is possible states. Or that you can not depend on what you are physically, and with whom you are doing it. However, you do not love them to only beloved, to whom other enthusiasts to. As long as it is not possible that you will love all, you do not know that anyone does not love them. Wife might say that it is impossible husband loved her only, to love whom toward. You will need flowing toward her flow of his love. However, she did not recognize that such love is false, that she that it is false is caused. Lover how not full of love for everyone, whether you can be loving to his partner?

, To create a sustainable, harmonious, sacred regardless grand key, loving person is both, they are, is to understand that treats they like, they have a love, hate thing. This is the mental aspect of all. I offer the attitude of love to the object dead even in people with love. This is, learning to act of kindness object pets and love, and good friends to begin with. By challenging us, that our relationship, lover of us to bring the truth home to us, the most important, the people who hurt us, we unkind people to us when I hear that you love, even if it is, the true test will come.

This sacred relationship that you dream is an attitude. You are, it should be noted that it causes the quality of your life is your attitude of every moment of your life. Your emotions is not automatic. Where the wind take you You are not a leaf blown around the park. As you love, you are guided to go deeper roots of you, your soul is a tree. There is no credibility to the next, your feelings of joy or damaged. Animals only, does not allow you to select how they react to the situation. Instinct of your animal is important to your feelings of emotion, but a thousand times the day, if you choose to be inspired by love, you need to work through your judgment you. If you are attracted to (ego) emotional nature of you, and be swept along in the rush of it all, your love life will degrade always drama.

Do you think you can love us and hate one another? No, it's impossible. It is human beings that human love is love. You do not have anything to do with some individuals it. But, they love everyone, even if you have not seen, such a person is sitting alone affection is. Nothing to do with the relationship it, be a loving, is the nature of this person. People who love loves regardless or where to there.

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We, every day you walk to work talk, smile, and laugh. Among these, some to love the people, the opportunity to open yourself. The bus driver, adjuster, taxi driver, Chief Executive Officer (CEO). When you fell in love actually bites love, is allowed to pass through it, and call them a small moment in, and seize the moment, I can feel the love without acting just us. Asking a phone number, such as trying to get an acknowledgment, this is not as invasive. These spoil its beauty. Anywhere, anyone, and at any time simply, over and over again, if you are to bear in mind, open your mind to the possibility that you fall in love that can. I experienced the bite of love with 500 people in a day once. I doubt that any of them knew it. Mouthful of love consciousness, right, so you stop. Feel the Love bite fall in love, you, keep it secret. Action is stopped. Then, go home to buy milk simply. The feel of you just, Love bite fall in love, leave it. Experience of the bite of love means that there is no any action, then, you will have a lot. This is a culture of love. In order to celebrate the diversity of beauty by that if you learn to see the beauty as often as possible, take a nanosecond to witness it with honor.

Then, angry, man because it was too tight to them, and throw them in the corner undone shoelaces of him, and threw the door open, and closed the door with a thud and into the room. If there is anger on the inside, people, they will treat the property and their shoes as if it were an enemy of his greatest. And bowed in front of the monk, man provides a point of him.

The monk said, "until you apologize to your shoes and the door, I will. Correspondence is not possible for your greeting," said

Should I "Why, I do not apologize, they're not alive?", Man protest

When you were angry with them, the door, you're recognized their personality and, answer Monk you is "taken out your anger on those shoes as if it were a sin of something they . You threw the shoes. Recognizing the individuality of yourself in your actions, so, you must admit their personality to your apology to them. "

Man, "Sorry in your shoes, but I was angry at you, there is no excuse, but I door. Taken out the frustration you my"

And facing the Monk, heard the story "I, I've been stirring my anger, in peace with myself, my anger, which processes all in people and things I am a man I feel that we have warned me that you've been will. "


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Let us be grateful to the people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.

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