Why life is not unfair

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Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me.

- Carol Burnett

NellShaOza here! ~ Thank you for opening my blog and I would appreciate it so much if you'll continue it further. I just want to say that this blog is mostly my opinion and my own objective base but also with a touch of facts statement. I just want to share how I appreciate the life that an individual have. Continue reading and Enjoy! :)

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If you know how to Choose and what are the circumstances of life, You'll understand that Life isn't UNFAIR at all. But don't blame yourself too much, As what Hillary always says "There is always room for improvement"


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Below are the things that you might want to read to appreciate in order to know that LIFE IS NOT UNFAIR

1. You have Food, They have a little

You're not contented but they do.

“If you really want to make a friend, go to someone’s house and eat with him… the people who give you their food give you their heart.”

- Cesar Chavez

Food is a material consisting essentially of protein, carbohydrate, and fat used in the body of an organism to sustain growth, repair, and vital processes and to furnish energy; also : such food together with supplementary substances (such as minerals, vitamins, and condiments) via merriam-webster.com

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As you can see above, a Food contained all the nutrients that a Human being need to survive fully and lively, but we all know for some people or should I say majority of the world population is now experiencing poverty which leads in insufficient intake of nutrients in their body. 

but did you ever wonder how they made their life less miserable even after they know they don't have enough money to buy goods/food to eat? Well It is because life is not UNFAIR. They are given strength to carry those pains and agony.


2. He/She Earned well, You don't

but You are happy in your job but he/she's not

The generosity of the super-rich is sometimes proffered as evidence they're contributing as much to the nation's well-being as they did decades ago when they paid a much larger share of their earnings in taxes.

- Robert Reich

Earnings typically refer to after-tax net income. Earnings are the main determinant of share price, because earnings and the circumstances relating to them can indicate whether the business will be profitable and successful in the long run via investopedia.com

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The Image showed above are the circumstance that people who earned big are tend to live their working career more easier and convenient, leaving the hard works and some technical stuff to those who earn lower than them, but some realities also shows that people who earned higher are more problematic when it comes in relationship with their family, friends and co workers, and people who are lower earnings are more happier and contented in their life. (This might varies in every situation)

However, Life is not UNFAIR because this people who earned what they deserve are hard workers before they achieve where they are right now.


3. He/She is the Highest in the Class but You are the lowest

He/She study all night but You didn't

I realized if you can change a classroom, you can change a community, and if you change enough communities you can change the world.

- Erin Gruwell

Grade Point Average (GPA) is the average result of all the grades achieved throughout your degree. Your GPA is calculated on a 7 point grading scale where 7 is the highest and 0 is the lowest achievement. Fail grades are included in the calculation via newcastle.edu.au

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You didn't study at all before the exam, You got a frightening grades. Your friends who doesn't study too got a Good grades. You stop believing in yourself and you ask why and why and why. I didn't study why does my friend who doesn't study too got it right? This time, Ask yourself again, Why and How you got that scary scores? Did you really study? Did you listened to your teachers when they discussed? Do you stock those knowledge to make you a knowledgeable student? and lastly, Did you put any effort at all?

Sometimes we questioned things that we know we already uncover the answers but we tend to turned our backs at them and bash other people who import an efforts toward his/her studies to cover the procrastination and all the negative things we did.

It's UNFAIR to tell that its UNFAIR when it comes to that situation, You didn't know what other student did to make their Grades Good and to make their parents proud. LIFE IS FAIR. You just need to uncover it how and why.


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4. You have a Family but He. She doesn't have

You take it for granted, but doesn't

Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don't wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it's at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.

- Earl Nightingale

Family is a group of people affiliated either by consanguinity (by recognized birth), affinity (by marriage or other relationship), or co-residence or some combination of these. Members of the immediate family may include spouses, parents, brothers, sisters, sons, and daughters via en.wikipedia.org

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If for you LIFE IS UNFAIR because your mother or father are too strict to let you mingle with your friends and your brother or sister are to insensitive to know your feelings behind those hatred. Well, Wake up and think about those little things they did for you. 

Because for some people, this is what they dreamed having of. A family that despite of the things that may occur UNFAIR to them, they would still think that they are lucky to have Parents and Siblings.



Remember this and Sure you'll have a happy life. Be contented in everything you have and if you want more? Work hard to get it, Other people do so thats why they achieve it. They may be born rich and you are born poor, it doesn't mean you'll die just like how you born. 

Learn to appreciate People around you, People situation, appreciate those little things, inspire other people and continue to conquer your own life to its fullest.

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September 2017
















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