Why mostly, our parents are not our best friends?

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Parents are the best partner of our life; we know to stand in our feet because of them. Even they sacrifice their life for children; whatever we want they are ready to fulfill.  They are very warmth, enthusiasm and zeal to see their kids in a progress or improvement in their life.



Somehow; they parents are not about to our best friends because of social norms, values and custom. They are probably wanted to make everything according to the society way of thing. “When in Rome, do as the Romans”. So they find to live in the society as they others live. Nowadays the world is in speed, race and rapidity so, mostly children are going to be modernizing their self but parents are not co-operating them with their task. There are mostly parents; I have seen, they are even not about to give education to their children, it is not because of poverty, just because of lake of awareness, responsive and lake of knowledge. They are not supposed to adopt new things in their mind.



In my area Chitral, Pakistan; they people were bound because of lack awareness, lack of understanding, lack of consciousness almost before ten years ago. We used to sit in class with very elder class fellows; because they had got aware about education vey late. Still they were studying, never feel shamed, embarrassment   and humiliated while sitting with young age of student.  So that’s why the literacy rate in our area is up to 75%. Sometime the students fail for the reason of parent’s decision. Even parents are giving decision for choosing subjects that they don’t like to learn. So, a person is not fulfilling until their interest, desire and wishes are not be fill up. At least in this things, they parents don’t have to give their opinion and view.


If they parents are known with the children’s mind than it is an easy to access in prosperous life and success life. The parents can be a best friend if they are supposed to know the interest of their children. They parents should have to give advice to their kids an early ages, so it’s be superior to the children

About the author


i am malika shah. i am the student of BS Eco & Finance. my passion is writing and to be superior in my life. serving for human being is my warmth desire.

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