30 Dirty Would You Rather Questions to Ask Your Lover

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Looking for naughty questions to ask your lover? Use these 30 dirty would-you-rather questions to have the sexiest time and know your lover better.


Questions are a fun way to pass the time, and have a few laughs along the way.

But the right questions can be a lot more than just fun.

They can be rather revealing, insightful and very truthful.

If you were to ask your boyfriend or girlfriend if they’d enjoy sleeping with someone else, or if they’ve ever found someone else attractive, they’d shuffle their feet uncomfortably and deny it.

But all of us could find someone attractive while walking down the street.

Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you need to cover your eyes and behave like you can’t appreciate anyone else in the world.

[Read: 25 relationship rules for successful love]

Asking the right questions to increase intimacy in a relationship

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean you should change yourself overnight or stop talking to the opposite sex.

As long as you respect your lover and are truthful to them, be it about a secret crush or a flirty conversation with someone else, it’ll bring both of you closer and remove all traces of insecurity in the relationship. [Read: Is flirting really cheating when you’re in a relationship?]

Remember this, insecurities and frustrations in a relationship crop up more often when you’re secretive, than when you’re truthful.

The perfect would-you-rather questions

You may be familiar with several fun would you rather questions, but have you ever imagined using them to better your relationship? Well, by using the right questions, both of you can explore your sexual minds and understand each other’s wants and sexual desires a lot better. [Read: How to make long term sex feel like a sexy one night stand all the time]

The next time you’re playing a game of would you rather questions, instead of asking mundane questions that may gross your partner out or make them laugh, ask questions that are sexy and fun, and yet, very revealing about their attitude towards sex and relationships.

As long as you keep the atmosphere light and easy, and have a laugh with each new question, you’ll know more about your lover’s sexual side within the next fifteen minutes than you’ve ever know before!

You can also use the answers to these questions to fantasize in bed with your lover later. If you do prolong these questions while making out, the sex may turn both of you on a lot more, and both of you will understand each other’s sexual side a lot more too. [Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound very sex doing it!]

30 would-you-rather questions to exercise your imagination

The next time you and your lover have time in your hands on a lazy afternoon or late at night, ask each other these questions in person or text these 30 would you rather questions to each other.

Either ways, your sex life will get better, your relationship will feel more secure, and both of you will feel a lot closer and more connected.

#1 If both of us were playing sexual truth or dare with other couples, would you rather watch me make out with someone or would you prefer making out with someone? [Read:30 dirty truth or dare questions for a sexy night]

#2 Would you rather cheat on me with your ex or with someone you’ve never been sexually intimate with before?

#3 Would you rather watch porn with me or read an erotic novel out loud while touching each other? [Read: The real reason behind why men like porn so much]

#4 Would you rather be an occasional flasher and discreetly show off your body to an attractive neighbor, or a voyeur who peeps at a sexy neighbor when they’re undressing? [Read: Real life secret public flashing confessions]

#5 Would you rather have sex with the lights on or the lights off?

#6 Would you rather cheat on me or bring another person of your gender into bed with us?

#7 If you had the choice, would you rather have morning sex or night sex?

#8 Would you rather pay for sex or get paid for sex?

#9 Would you rather give an oral or get an oral?

#10 Would you rather have sex while someone attractive is watching you, or would you want to watch someone have sex in front of you?

#11 Would you rather be on top or down while having sex? [Read: How to ride a man and look sexy doing it]

#12 Would you rather kiss an attractive person when they’re drunk with you, or wait until they’re totally wasted so you can see them in the nude?

#13 Would you rather have sex with me in front of your closest friends or circulate our home made sex video online with our faces blurred?

#14 Would you rather spit or swallow when you go down on me? [Read: How to make a guy go down on you without a push]

#15 Would you rather place a hidden camera in an attractive friend’s bathroom or kiss them accidentally? [Read: 5 ways to accidentally kiss a friend and get away with it!]

#16 Would you rather have anal sex with me or get penetrated by me and another friend at the same time? / Being a guy, would you rather have anal sex with another guy or get a blow job from another guy?

#17 If you’re really horny and couldn’t hold on, would you rather have your pet lick you down there or a complete stranger?

#18 Would you rather have period sex or a golden shower where you let me pee over you? [Read: The complete guide to having awesome sex on your period]

#19 Would you rather abstain from having sex with me for one full year because you’ve been cursed by a magical spell, or would you have sex with five other people to break the curse and resume having sex with me? Name the five people you’d have sex with if you choose to break the spell.

#20 If you were invisible for a whole day, would you rather grab boobs or grab butts of random girls / junk or butts of random guys?

#21 Would you rather give up on a promotion or sleep with your boss to get the promotion? / Would you rather give up on a promotion or ask me to sleep with your boss to get the promotion?

#22 Would you rather get an amazing oral from me or would you prefer good sex this weekend?

#23 Would you rather try out new and crazy kinky sex ideas or have romantic sex? [Read:Top 50 types of kinky sex ideas]

#24 If you were single, would you rather have multiple sex partners or one sex buddy?

#25 If you have a perfect first date with someone and the sexual chemistry is sizzling, would you rather end a date with a passionate kiss or would you like to end a first date with sex?

#26 Would you rather watch girl on girl porn or guy on guy porn to turn yourself on?

#27 Would you rather go down on me for two hours straight or give your crush a quick kiss on the lips?

#28 Would you rather have sex with my best friend or your best friend *of the opposite sex*? [Read: 12 devious ways to see a friend naked]

#29 When we’re having sex, would you rather talk about your secret crush with me or fantasize about it secretly in your mind? [Read: How to fantasize about someone else with your lover and have a good time together]

#30 If you get a massage in a secluded room and no one could see you, would you rather get it from an average looking person of the opposite sex who discreetly brushes their hands around your privates quite often, or a very attractive person whose hands don’t go anywhere near your shorts?

When you ask each other these sexy questions, both of you would instantly know more about each other and understand each other ‘s sexual likes and dislikes, and kinky interests too.

And if both of you like each other’s answers, you could use it to improve your sex lives and even understand each other’s sexual desires and dirty ideas better.

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