7. Dedicate yourself to oral instead of a quick once-over.
Go down on her for more than five minutes. Don’t use teeth, and be responsive to her body language. Go slow. Spend as much time as you would expect on your own, and even longer. It takes girls a little longer to warm up.

8. Talk dirty to her.
This way, she can tell you what she wants you to do to her, and vice versa, all while getting her hot and bothered. This doesn’t just have to be limited to when you’re in the bedroom – before your special date, text her everything you’re looking forward to do to her, and all the sexy parts of her that you’re thinking about.