Living with a partner, I still can not forget his wife

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After the divorce, boredom and need someone to share so I'm back with my girlfriend before. But after nearly six months of divorce, I can not forget his wife, and my wife was emotionally so the two had intended to reunite.
I was a young man, had his wife and children, but now my husband and I divorced. My husband and I used to love each other and reach 6 years of marriage, I was the provincial population with a normal family situation, my wife is the youngest child of a very wealthy family in the city. Emotional we kept quiet until after marriage.

However, when it comes to marriage is only 4-5 months, life began with waves, small at first but nearly a year, the tension begins. Conflicts occur mostly due to me not with her family, because I do not like the behavior of the wife and her family also despise me. Then contradictions of the family 2 adults, plus my wife is not ingenious, no sympathy for her husband, and two couple's ego is too big.

By the time I feel pressure to the extreme, I met a girl. At first only a friend, but then I said to feel more for her lots of love. I did not restrain myself, but confessed to her. She also has feelings for me but I still recommend seeking to resolve the conflict and return to their families.

My wife and family knew, everyone condemned and admonished me quite a lot, but because of pride for the behavior of my wife then, not withstand the family, I had to move out of. Perhaps my mistake begins here.

When I go out is when I resigned because I could not concentrate, I spend more time than feelings for his girlfriend. I had intended to divorce her, although she loved me but still I think thoroughly recommend. 2 we have repeatedly said I actually stopped to settle the family and then to calculate the final but we still can not be separated.

However, the decision to close the time I found my wife and children are important to how I still love her and need her child. I have to say goodbye to his girlfriend, then I'm really hurt and regret she almost collapsed completely.

I look forward to returning to the family reunion, but I have encountered difficulties when the wife is not fully forgive me, and her family have already made far more serious conflicts over. Sad love story, plus debt, I became depressed, neglected work. I'm self-employed, but the bad luck to meet losses, job hiring, there is no motivation to do more and matted, in debt.

Then my wife filed a court, after reconciliation with my wife, but then withdraw the conflict remains unresolved so finally we signed a divorce. After the divorce, boredom and need someone to share so I'm back with former girlfriend, I would forget the idea to his wife with her whole heart, but again I make mistakes. I made her suffer, you start regaining confidence I leave her again.

After nearly six months of divorce, I can not forget her, and I also love my wife so the two had intended to reunite. However, now my problems have increased a lot, I do not want to return to the old house to live because it is the home of the wife. I can not live with the family. My wife agrees couple children will live rent, but now I have no job, in debt and can not take care of his wife and children.

Plus 2 side by contradiction to my family disagree over the wife talk. I also do not want to be bitter condescension with his wife, my wife can not lose face with their parents should be required to do every procedure.

I also tormented girlfriend because I'm really in love with her. Each time she was talking to me again lifts up a lot, and the last time I hard she helped me, with me encouragement and sacrifice for me. Right now my wife is still doubt about this relationship should have asked her and because I wanted to be reunited with her family should have protected me and get my feelings about unilaterally.

Well, needless to say, my wife and I still love 2 and need each other, and bound the children, but the conflict between my wife and family conflicts with family 2 was harshly than before. Because during the last house wife for my son to visit the interior, including my father's death anniversary, or holidays. I visited me or call to inquire and seek to prevent. I went to visit her family not to see, but my wife is childlike, not skillful behavior to hear family.

I am sick to think not know how, I really can not love anyone other than his wife during this time. But back any good, or just trying to cling to things back then worse? Now I'm in debt, my wife does not know life miserable.

You could give me advice, I should be reunited with his wife, daughter to the other? Living alone business lo land at the city or to a place not far from the known to do from the beginning.



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