This is a true saying, if i ever heard one. Have you ever encountered a problem in your life and other people try to tell you how to handle that problem, but the solutions they give you, just aren't your solutions? There was this one guy, and he was having problems out of his girlfriend, and his older brother and his cousins were trying to tell him how he should handle it. He told his brother and his cousins:  listen!...ll just don't UNDERSTAND! I said...tell it like it really is!...they don't understand, because people handle different type problems, in different type ways. Everybody is their own individual and handle their own problems in their own ways. This has happened to me many times in my life, and i pretty much learned not to let anyone know of certain situations in my life. I got to solve them in a way that's best for me, and not how