ADROITNESS AND POWER OF WORDS

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ADROITNESS AND POWER OF WORDS


There is a power of Money, Integrity, Status, Supremacy, Sovereignty, Authority, Fear, and many other tangible and intangible notions. However, which can influence all the powers is the "POWER OF WORDS". Have you ever heard about hypnosis? No drugs, no medication, any kind of remedy or any other nostrum being involved. It's just the power of words. It's not being unconscious, it is the state of consciousness which thoroughly comprehend with recognition, attention and dwindle the peripheral awareness in order to respond the suggestions and directions.

 

Existent verity of "WORDS"!


Every emotion whether it's happiness, sadness, perturbation, exhilaration, joy, anticipation, disgust, anger, fear, trust etc, can't be expressed without words. Words help to transmit and divulge one's emotion. As Cassandra Clare once said "We live and breathe words". However, they not only let us to disclose our emotions but shore up the ability to influence it too.

It's nothing else but a powerful drug use to manipulate one's emotion, thoughts, behavior and actions.       


  "Words are, of course, the most powerful drug used by mankind"


For instance, whenever someone hurts you through their words or made you feel great both the emotions aroused through words. And i"ll bet both feelings engraved in your mind without even the consideration of the time span. Even the Bible says, "Reckless words pierce like a sword, but the tongue of the wise brings healing". Throughout the history we have been listening the fact that "Words have had as much power as the sword." It diversify and recalibrate human's behavior could be positive or negative relaying on words being used. 


          Over two hundred years ago, Edmund Burke wrote that: "Words are an   expression of our passions and have more power than any other art form".

 



How to deploy and meliorate them in your favor!


Your words hinge on your ambience environment. If it's your work place or it's a formal gathering you would use the different word for the same incentive, although that doesn't amend your incentive or elucidation, As once they said "When in Rome, do as the Roman's do". Furthermore, that not wholly rely on your circumjacent. The permutation also depends upon the person. Suppose, if any elder person or your boss says you something wrong or bad and you wouldn't lose your composure, but if same thing said to you by your colleague may be you won't let it go off without a hitch. 


You need to track down three cardinal points:


  1. Being scrupulous (strategic): listen and acquire the points, the other person is trying to make because through that his mind would be at peace and he'll listen you carefully,rather contriving an argument. And through refuting that you could tackle him down.

  2. Be realistic(operational): Imply and demonstrate the irrefutable facts. Realism is the more effective and practical way, rather than idealism. Try to place pragmatic approach.

  3. Stimulate and edify positive upshot: Good food and bad food, but you choose good food over bad in order to sustain your good health. Similarly, negative words and positive words, positive words would be for positive soul because words are reflection of our thoughts, ongoing emotions  and current mood but choosing bad words isn't a way out it's just a fuel in the fire and only escalate the mess.




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