The risks of breaking up badly

When you break up like a coward, there are always rebounds from both sides of the relationship, and there are sobbing calls and make ups and breaks up and a few kisses in between.

If you really want to know how to break up with someone you love, you need to stay away from quick and easy ways, because they can actually end up lingering longer and make you and your partner feel more miserable.

The right way to break up with someone you love

When you’re considering a break up, you need to ask yourself a few questions to understand your own mind. Can you really handle the break up and can you stay firm with your decision? These questions will help you find that out.

 If your partner asks for a second chance, would you be willing to give a chance?

 Do you think you’d have a change of heart in the middle of the conversation?

Do you constantly have second thoughts about breaking up? Do you wonder if you should change your mind?

 Are you just angry with your partner based on present circumstances?

 Would you prefer to take a break in the romance before you call the relationship off?

If you’ve answered most of these questions in the affirmative, it probably means you’re still in love with your partner, and not really ready to end the relationship yet.

And even if you do want to break up, there’s a greater chance that you’d get back again if your partner wants to get back with you.

The real way to end a relationship

If  given up all hope of staying happy in love even though you love your partner, and are ready to end the relationship, here are 8 steps you need to follow to end a relationship the right way.