What is make up sex?
Have you ever had an angry argument with your partner recently?
Sex may be the last thing on your mind while arguing, but at times, when both of you are clasping each other or standing really close and in each other’s personal space, the angry surge and heavy panting may suddenly turn into a sexual rush.
Many couples have never experienced angry sex, but there are enough of them to vouch for angry sex and the incredible turn on it gives.
If you ever ended an argument abruptly by throwing each other into bed, chances are, you’ve had an enjoyable round of angry make up sex.
Why does make up sex feel so passionate?
To your mind, pleasure, pain, fear and almost every other intense feeling releases chemicals that make your heart race and make you feel breathless.
When you turn all that rage into sexual arousal, you’re redirecting the intense passion of the argument into lovemaking which can end up making make up sex feel a lot more passionate and animalistic than romantic lovemaking.
But as passionate or confusing as make up sex may be, avoid creating conflicts just to have make up sex. While an unintentional romp in the middle of a fight may be a fun way to end the fight, it’s not going to be so much fun if it’s a repeated affair. It could end up upsetting one partner, or worse, tearing the relationship apart because you need to live in a constant state of crisis just to feel any passion between each other.
How to have make up sex
Don’t initiate a fight just to make love. But if you find yourself feeling tingly down there in the middle of a fight, just keep these tips in mind to turn an argument into passionate make up sex.
Get really close while arguing. You may be in a mad rage, but force your mind to get into each other’s personal space. Even the thought of getting close to your angry partner may annoy you at first, but a few weak moments of angry words could turn the argument into an arousing experience.
#2 Hold your partner firmly. Is the fight getting out of control? Is your partner slapping your arm or pushing you away? This is probably a good time to hold your partner firmly and get even closer. And if you feel the surge of anger turn into arousal, you’re probably ready for angry sex.
But remember this, kiss your partner only if your partner partially reciprocates within a couple of tries. Sometimes, one of you may be too upset for make up sex, especially if you’ve gone and slept with someone else.
