We and the people around us are different: some perhaps more prone to constructive dissatisfaction for anything they have reached, the others are sleeping on their laurels. Some of us seem desperate whiners and pessimists, others dizzy optimists and hardly anyone can tell me where is the norm and what kind of approach to life is necessary to develop.

Maybe is the right expression, that there are all kind of people, and all kinds are needed. I think it is very good if a person is able to sometimes dissociated look at himself and his environment and to understand what and why he is not satisfied or pleased with. And if he himself and his feelings understand adequately and they are acceptable to him - it's gonna be great.