If your relationship is not going well, you better watch this. The 9 secrets of happy couples. Always remember the basics, a great relationship requires time, commitment, communication, trust and of course faithfulness with each other. Without these factors you’ll end up having a rough time.
In addition to that I also include this Pointers from Psychcentral, This will help you figure out what is lacking in your relationship. Probably these are the “secrets” of happy couples.
1. Develop a realistic view of committed relationships.
Recognize that the crazy infatuation you experienced when your romance was new won’t last. A deeper, richer relationship, and one that should still include romance, will replace it. A long-term relationship has ups and downs, and expecting it will be all sunny and roses all the time is unrealistic.