• say "yes", while I wanted to say 'no'
• smile, instead of crying,
• Do not rest,
• persuade yourself to suffer a little more, instead of understanding "For a bright target I'll endure it?"
• offended, rather than ask the person that we need,
• do not do their job,
• People are not interested in, and we thought up some reason to continue to communicate with him,
• people with us most of the time talking about the negative,
• talk a lot about politics, public utilities tariffs, traffic jams, etc.
• gossip,
• tell a lot and emotionally about how others live,
• work on uninteresting, boring work,
• fear,
• expect that someone will come up (Santa Claus, Prince Leopold oligarch) and life will change,
• criticize yourself, consider themselves unworthy, incompetent, unlucky,

We are gaining momentum when:
• Meet new people,
• acquire new knowledge,
• Travelling,
• Overcome your fears,
• Try something new,
• Walk (not to be confused with the "run job" or go to the store, and it is a walk without any particular purpose)
• engage in creative,
• Communicate with nice people,
• Communicate with the people who support us and believe in us,
• Engaged in your body (you can use any bodily practice, sauna, swimming pool)
• Free the physical space (think of how differently you feel in a renovated room)
• Free the emotional space (remember, you are in a different feel when you could forgive and to say goodbye to a man)
• We say "no" when I want to say "no" and say "yes" when I want to say "yes"
• Getting to do what we want.

You choose.