Is it people around you? In my own personal journey of trying  to be a better person, i realized that its about aiming to be :-) happy ,nothing less nothing more. When your happy :-) you're  effectively better in every aspect of your life.

              In realization,  happiness comes from shedding the unnecessary in life, as you need to stop earing about a certain things. Second realization , a lot these unnecessary things are painfully obvious more often than not, its plain common sense. The things to share about" Happy :-) people doesn't care for."

   AGE of the person :-)

                Its just a number, and everyone know this i'm sure. 

                They don't let  this ever increasing number define who they are and what they do. They just do  whatever it is they want!

                Life is to short, before you know it  age catches up. You might as well make full use of life before it actually reflects your age.

                Some people who are happy because they date people younger than them, they  actually found true love despite the age gap. Saying "Age doesn't matter (when it come in true love) if you found someone who makes your heart  :-) happy."

 

LISTENING about what others think or say:

            This is one of the biggest blocks of our :-) happiness.   Happy :-)  people don't  care for that, they recognized that the words of others are never accurate and should never judge them for who they are  what they've  capable of.

           Instead, they block it and they don't allow such false illusions  to get in the way of what it is they want to do or how they feel, only  what they think of themselves matters. " Life is too short  to worry about others say or think about you.  Have fun and give them something to talk about"

 

  JOBS :-)

          That's not to say that happy :-) people  are unemployed, the idea is you're not your job. Sure, job now a days  is important for stability and survival in today's society. But other than that your scope and status at work would be left at the office. You don't going to seep into your everyday life and make you'd end up feeling tired, bored or stressed out. 

         What matter most is your  talent, passions and out look on life. Allowing you to take over any of that would only mean you've allowing a label to define who you are.

 

 FEARS :-)

          Fears not real, happy :-)  people know about that. with that.

      With that,they know nervousness and anxiety thats supposedly comes with fear are not real. Block it out! get out of the comfort zone, feel a bit crazy and just do what you want any way --theres just no point holding back in life because you feel scarred! Feel free :)

 

NEGATIVE  state of mind :-)

         There's a lot of disturbing things going on out there, but happy :-) people don't do naughty things, they do a good job in making sure it doesn't affect how they feel.

        The happiest  :-) people simply focus on trying to make the world a better place, one small stop at a time. They may not be able to create a revolution  overnight, but they know that by showing a bit kindness,compassion to others, the world is that much more positive.

Don't let the negative in life get to you. Its not your Fault others have made it this way.

TOXIC PEOPLE :-) 

             Never deal with an annoying Friends or somebody who's just really self destructive -DUMP- them, its time to create a positive environment for your self.  Have people gain happiness ;-) from the people they are with and not with in. This is an amazing life. If you're feeling happy, take a look around sometimes the people   the one just dragging you down. " Surround  yourself with people who make you :-) happy. People who make you laugh, who make you help when you're in need. People who never take advantage of you. People who genuinely care. They are the ones  worth keeping in your life. Everyone else is just a passing through."

The past or the Future :-)

      Forget the past and think it doesn't exist. Neither does the future. If you want to  be :-) happy, you've got to let go the past and move with life. LEARN from it and GROW from it, then make sure you don't repeat the same mistakes.

     As for the future-happy :-) people pretty much let go of the expectations. When you let go the past and the future, then you can truly enjoy the present .

EXPECTING anything in RETURN :-)

     Start doing things for the sake of doing thing. Help others for the sake of being  compassionate, the true rewards knowing that you've added positivity in others.

     Happy :-) people let go of always wanting something in return. Thats how they never get disappointed.

 

COMPLAINING :-)

        That's the result of unhappy :-(  life. Sometimes things don't go your way, you can't escape that.

       But complaining is useless. Happy  :-) people know that they're instead grateful  for what they have and then they try to find solution with positive mind set.

The CONFORMING to society's standards :-)

       Its just like AGE, there's a lot of labels out there that try to define who we are.  EXPECTATIONS are always throw at us and it can be pretty over whelming at times.

       Happy :-)  people don't care for any of that, they take time their time. They look with in and do what they want in life.

This how happiness  :-) is created: Not doing thing's you don't care for.

                        HAPPY  :-) PEOPLE :-) DON'T  :-)  CARE :-) FOR