Many People are still locked up in the question “Does he/she really love me?”

The need to properly answer these questions arise on daily basis. As more people are getting hurt in relationship others are trying to be more careful before they say or respond “I love you” or “I love you too”. Below are the few key features that every true must possess.

1. Attraction test: Is he/she attracted to the content or container that is it about your person or your body.

 2. Purpose test: Will the relationship be temporal or forever, what exactly is the basis of your love.

3. Vision test: Does your vision unite you or divide you, do you compliment him and does he add values to you.

4. Activity test: Are you planning for tomorrow or all you care about is the excitement of today. Do you see a future together are you guarding it or destroying it

 5. Caring test: What does he care about your life or body, your present or future? Is the care genuine or to get through to you.

6. Longevity test: is it for now or forever.

 7. Starting test: How did it all started, was is based on friendship, infatuation or lust.

8. Purity test: Do you stand for righteousness or engaging in sexual immoralities.

9. Divine relationship test: Are you together in Christ or together in club.

10. Interest test: Is he warm, tender and gentle or harsh rude and arrogant.

11. Maturity test: How wise are you both, can your wisdom build a home and will your understanding establish it.

12. Effect test: Are you a better person or worse off.

13. Excitement test: Are you happy or you are enduring the relationship.

 14. Marriage test: can you spend the rest of your life with him/her. Can you marry him/her?

 15. Self-emotions test: can you both control your feelings and urge for sex.

16. Personal test: is he/she a genuinely born again Christian

17. Patient test: can you both keep the bed undefiled

18. Peace test: Is there peace of mind or you are always troubled

19. Other relationship: What is the view of your family and friends? Do they know about the relationship, are they in support of it.

20. Trust test: can you open up to him/her saying nothing but the truth at every point in time.

21. Distance test: can you love him/her in his/her absence

22. Time test: Is love growing strong or waxing cold, can it survive the test of time.

23. Pluralistic test: Do you see each other as you and me or we and us

24. Character test: Can you coup with your flaws and can you live with your weaknesses

 25. Foundation test: can you present him to the world as your husband or wife.

26. Goal test: Is your goal to please God or yourselves

27. Prayer and counsel test: Have you prayed about it, is your pastor or church leaders aware of your relationship.

28. Association test: Who are the people surrounding your relationship

29. Commitment test: Do you spend quality time with each other, are you there when things are not smiling.

30. Medical test: Is your genotype compatible The true elements of love are: Trust, acceptance, compassion, respect, service, forgiveness, selflessness, excitement, righteousness, peace, patient submission, commitment, sacrifice, giving, positive thinking, forbearance, truth, tolerance, faithfulness, faith, hope and joy. The false element of love is: • Love is not base at first sight • Love is not sexual urge • Love is not based on beauty and wealth • Love cannot come from immature mind • Love is not in hast • Love s not envious • Love is no without control • Love does not come from an ungrateful mind • Love does not rejoice in iniquity • Love does not seek to glorify it self • Love does not dishonor marriage Games singles should avoid: • Having a relationship with an unbeliever all in the name of converting him/her • Close friendship that keeps others from proposing • To accept gift and pretend not to know the givers intention • To assume you are in a relationship with someone without formal approval • To delay proposal all in the name of praying for selfish reasons • To deliberately cover for an unbeliever from your pastor all in the name of love • Satisfying your sexual appetite by yourself through masturbation • To have a pure relationship with a believer and a sex relationship with an unbeliever at the same time • To be in multiple relationship with the mind of picking one of them to marry Beware games players always lose at the end.