“Expectations are good but too much expectations are dangerous”  this is the dialog from the movie “ the hunger  game” and I was much moved by it.

Man’s life is full of expectations and they always hurt. Still ,it cannot be illuminated from man’s life. But I must say, in fact suggest with great respect , that the degree of expectations should be lessen as much as possble , for somewhat relaxed life.

 

 To expect something from someone means to kindle fire to the Molotov cocktail, and direct it towards your own, and to think it will not hurt you.

 Expectations are just like boulders and to stumbled over them is not a piece of cake, it’s a great toil,  and extremely wearing.  I know being human it is quite difficult to do this. Because it, perhaps , is included in  man’s nature to have reward for his doings from others. But it is also in man’s nature to forget well and remember only the bad things.  

A man having bunches of expectations has bunches of desperation,  too.  As i read somewhere “disappointment = expectations / reality”

 People do not respond as what we want to see, or we expect. This is the point where we feel discontent. Perhaps we do not allow others to act by their own way, and when they act as they want to, we become fierce.

                So , we should acknowledge the feelings of others, and should accept them willingly. And

 Ultimately we would be able to face reality and to expect less.