Explaining the idea of The Third Place.

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So many people have asked us, “How did you come up with the idea for The Happy Hour Guys”? Here’s Mark's go at explaining it. I’ve always been fascinated by the “pub culture”; what matters is not so much simply a place to go and drink, but a place that serves and helps to create a community. Some time ago, I came across Kevin C. Kearns’ wonderful book “Dublin Pub Life and Lore” and was hooked (It’s a great read, I recommend it highly). Mr. Kearns had conducted interviews with a generation of old time regulars in Dublin’s colorful and disappearing pub scene. The world he explored of pintmen, publicans and oddball behavior had me hooked. But that way of life is fading: Why? Recently, I came across author Ray Oldenburg’s “The Great Good Place” which deals with why we need places like pubs, taverns, and café’s in our lives and communities. He calls them “THIRD PLACES” (our homes and work being the first and second) and lays out a convincing argument as to why we need a place free from the expectations and responsibilities of the first two. The cast of characters we meet at home and at work changes little, but the cast of a “third place” can change greatly. Also, in a third place we are free to be ourselves, or create a self we choose. Roles can be dissolved. A lawyer can sit elbow to elbow with a mailman, an artist, a student, a waiter. Roles we play on a daily basis can be abandoned and we are welcomed on new terms. Not all bars and pubs are third places. It takes more than a liquor license to create them. It takes character and characters; conversation and debate. It takes a willingness to be open and include newcomers while enjoying “the regulars”. Sadly, in our world now, these places are becoming rarer as we develop communities that make no place for a “local”. Subdivisions often create neighborhoods of people who share a zip code and little else, isolated in their homes without a third place to bring them together. And let’s not even begin down the road of the effects of corporate meddling on the independent pub owner. So The Happy Hour Guys came about, in part, to find some of these “third places” and tell their stories. We are the good friends who want to tell you the stories of the people, the places, the drink and food that are more than just a pick up joint or a business expense. Places that create something unique, weird, funny, and meaningful. They say the best stories are true. There are countless Happy Hour Guys destinations out there. We want to show you the “third places” you’ll tell your friends about. Maybe you’ll find your own local. Or maybe we’ll all just have some fun. Cheers!

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Jimmy Ludwig and Mark Aldrich love three things: History, Drinking, and the History of Drinking. Oh, and did we mention Travel? Jimmy and Mark go around the world and through time to discover the most historic and remarkable bars, the best Happy Hours, and the greatest drinking stories ever woven…

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