This is the bitter truth that girl side always measures itself inferior but reality should be different. When boy-girl and man-woman are equal why girl side got tensed with marriage broken by boy side. Do girl side can not reject the boy side in same manner? Actually root of every problem is dowry system and interesting thing is that society never did analysis on this that what is dowry and by whom this should really have? Girl side should get dowry in my understanding not boy side should get which is general practice. When a girl gets married , her family is reduced by one number because she goes in her in-laws home. This affect her home, where she born, management. So Girl side should get compensation to consolidate the loss. If we give the name dowry to this compensation, then obviously girl side should get dowry. When you bring someone’s daughter by making your daughter in-law for your home management, then price should be given to girl side. You will not ask money from girl side like beggars. You are required a daughter in-law because your son does not know how to cook. If you will not have daughter in-law, then you will not get offspring.