The Reason Why You Feel Like Hating Others

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I run into a very inspirational article which has an intelligent analysis on hateration and being a hater. It was firstly published on Huffington Post' s Health Living Channel, written by MeiMei Fox. " 'Hateration' (as Mary J. Blige so brilliantly labeled it in her hit song "Family Affair"), is an ego-driven response to shame: our feelings that we haven't lived up to our own standards, and that therefore we aren't good enough. As a result, other people's success, efforts, and good deeds make us feel smaller. When we have that gut-level, animalistic reaction of wanting to hate on something, it means we've triggered an area of self-loathing within ourselves. But most of the time, we're way too afraid to go there and admit what it is that we've done to disappoint ourselves. It's easier to blame others for our bad feelings and make it about their failures rather than our own." See the full article, please click here. Are you a hater? How do you feel when you hate others? Please share it by commenting below, facebook and tweets (icons on the right side).  May God Bless All.   



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Tarra

I am a big fan of love, happiness, inner peace, dedication, loyalty and everything that inspires and empowers women. USC graduate, Christian, LA resident. Skinny figure with a vision and big heart. Fashionista. Classic trained painter and dancer 10 years ago. Amateur relationship & marriage therapist. email- blog- http://www.asiangirlwhiteguy.com…

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