Man’s dominant nature

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Man _equally respectable, equally competent, as women . But has been dominating the society from the past immemorial. Not because of the fact that he is physically brave and tough, but because of the fact that he considers himself as a ruler-deservely a champion…

                Although ALLAH says man and women are equal then why nobody admit it? Why man is not willing to give the women its right place? Why is he snatching her basic right-the right of being respected?

                Even in the most developed and advanced countries the discrimination and cruelty does exist. Apparently it sees that, they are giving the women her right place, and show respect too her. But reality is just opposite. To put the internal and external burden on someone is something else  and to give right place and respect to someone considering one’s as human is something really else. This is just unjustifiable.

 IN FACT it is matter of more suspicion and complexity, they have relaxed their males by putting even their duties on the shoulders of pity women and doing it so proudly under the tag of ‘woman’s right’ but actually the woman of there is suffering too badly.

                I have no objection with the dominance of man, but not the typical one. Not the one in which the emotions and self-respect is packed down  and crushed under the man’s feet, and not in the sense that man starts to consider himself as king and woman as his servant in which he finds gratification and pleasure in making orders and shows hostility and aggression  in case of disobedience. I really condemn that sort of dominance which means to insult others, to degrade, to lacerate, to detest and to abominate others…

                 But if dominance means to safe and sound her, to notify her, to motivate her, to make her strong, to make her courageous, as in actual woman needs all this.

                As in olden days woman was confined to her home, her duties revolve around that and man was running all the outdoor duties. But as time changes, she felt the need to get independent and stepped out.

                As she poked her nose in mans retinue, she is not welcomed by man. And man started to suppress her by showing dominancy over her, by inches this grew healthier…

                Realistically, woman has no protestation on mans supremacy ,the issue is with mans attitude the most insulting one, he is considering her inferior in every walk of life…

                According to Islamic point of view man is awarded with duties as father as a brother as commander, a soldier  etc and thus  made him physically  and emotionally strong moreover the dominant  nature is also His gift to man but at the same time He allowed him to use them with in limits…  

                Islam does not convey the message of prejudice and injustice there are gigantic rights for woman and comparatively less duties for her.

                If our society starts practicing the teaching of Islam and to value every one then only peace and love will prevail there. There is no master slave concept in Islam. Every body should be equally respected as a human.



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